Randy Arias Confidence Podcast

HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM-Learn more about How to build your self confidence at: http://www.randyarias.com/blog HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM i have been getting email saying “Randy i get what your saying, and I'm doing what you are telling me to do, but i still feel i am not good enough”. I want to let you know that i understand how you feel and i empathize with you. In my experiences i have learned that our lack of self confidence comes from peoples opinions and comments about our selves. in order for us to get passed this problem in our lives, we must first understand our value, our self worth, and only then can we use that understanding to leverage us into self confidence. God created you I want you to now that God created you, and that in it self is a blessing. God is the all mighty perfect and creator of the universe. He does not make mistakes, and everything that he creates is a masterpiece. You are one of Gods Masterpieces, you were created from greatness. You have the see

BUILDING CONFIDENCE: DEALING WITH ADVERSITY AND HARD TIMES

HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND GAIN CONFIDENCE, 2 PRINCIPLES TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE-Learn more about How to build your self confidence at: http://www.randyarias.com/blog HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND GAIN CONFIDENCE, 2 PRINCIPLES TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE Hey guys in this video I am going to share with you 2 principles that I used to go from a mediocrity lifestyle to becoming a very successful entrepreneur. In my youth I was destined for failure, being born in the wrong part of town and making wrong choices landed me in jail on multiple occasion. Also I dropped out of high school at the age of 15 on my birthday. How did I go from that into becoming a successful entrepreneur, General Manager of a fitness club, and graduating from college with honors? I did it with 2 principles that if you apply to your life you to can achieve anything in your life. Principle #1- Stop hanging out with the wrong crowd. All the friends that I had while growing up were up to no good. If I was ever to change my life I knew that I

HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR, AND BUILD CONFIDENCE AT THE SAME TIME-Learn more about How to build your self confidence at: http://www.randyarias.com/blog Free Confidence Guide: http://eepurl.com/bug8in HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR, AND BUILD CONFIDENCE AT THE SAME TIME In our journey to build self-confidence we will come across situations that we do not feel confortable in. You will encounter a situation where you are faced with fear and anxiety. In this video I will show you 3 tips you can do to help you overcome fear. Fear is a natural reaction in our body better known as fight or flight response by our bodies. The purpose of this fear is to keep you safe from harm or embarrassment. When the feeling of fear comes over you, understand that this is your body trying to get you out of a bad situation. With the understanding that fight or flight is just here to protect you lets talk about some ways we can overcome them. 1. Power stance- a power stance is when you take the body stance of a super hero like Superman for examp

To learn more about me visit: http://www.randyarias.com HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU 1.Don't criticize, condemn or complain- people do not like to be criticized, so this is something we want to avoid at all cost. People are going to have their own opinions, and you don’t have to agree but what you can do is not criticize. Also nobody likes a complainer, I was told by my boss one time that half the people you complain to don’t care about what you are saying and the other half are glad is you and not them. 2.Give honest, sincere appreciation- people are thirsty for appreciation and by nature we as human being are not appreciative. Go out of your way to give a sincere appreciation to someone that does something nice for you, it will make his or her day. 3.Become genuinely interested in other people- one great way to make people like you is to become interested in what they are talking about. Even if you don’t have knowledge on the subject, become interested in what they have to say and they will love you for

To learn more about me visit: http://www.randyarias.com 1. WHEN IN DOUBT, ACT!- after 100 of studies and interviews, nothing builds confidence like taking action, especially when the action involves risk and failure. I want to be completely honest when I say that it is never going to feel right, when you are in a social setting and you are asked to speak it is never easy. Furthermore, when you feel like raising your hand and speaking up do not let your fears stop you, because it is at that moment that you move one step closer to mastering your emotions. 2. VISUALIZE SUCCESS- when we think of what could go wrong we emotionalize that event and our body follows. You must envision yourself having a great time and being exactly the way you want it to be (only humans can do this). I think back on my experience when I have gone out to night clubs part of my routine before I walk in is to listen to a song that I really like in the car, and while the song is playing I close my eyes and visualize my self having a g

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com HOW TO BUILD MORE CONFIDENCE- STEP #2- GETTING RID OF NEGATIVE THOUGHTS Hey guys welcome to Step #2 of how to build more confidence. Today I want to share with you some tips and tricks on how to get rid of negative thoughts. You know that little voice in your head that puts you down and tells you that you’re no good. That is a learned thought pattern that we adapt when we are growing up, but it sticks with us our entire life if we do not change them. Subconscious Mind, I first want to cover where do those thoughts come from. They come from your subconscious mind.. our conscious mind is the thinking, problem solving, everyday thinking mind. Our subconscious mind is the storage of our true beliefs. In order to get rid of negative self talk we must clear out the negativity in our subconscious mind. Napoleon Hill said in his book Think And Grow Rich, that we become what we think about. So if we are constantly thinking negative then our life become negative. Our g

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com WHY AM I SO SHY, THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL Hey guys, Randy Arias here. Today I want to talk to you about, where does shyness come from? A lot of us are dealing with shyness and lack of self-confidence and lack of self-esteem and anxieties. But we don’t know where any of that even came from. So I want to share with you the top five places that we acquired our shyness from. And so I’m going to share them with you now and then I’m going to break them down really quick. Society has made us to become who we are. So that’s why we’re shy. Our parents, school teachers, and the media. Also, some of us are born hyper sensitive and so that’s the fifth one. Now let’s talk about each one separately. First, Society is constantly telling us to go with the flow, to follow the leader. To not get in trouble, and so by doing that we lose our self-identity. And so we start to become someone we’re not, hence we become shy. So that’s the biggest reason with society that while we’re shy

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com CONFIDENCE- WAS I BORN SHY Today I have a pretty cool topic to share with you, and that is a myth that has been thrown around by almost everyone that I know, and that is the shy gene. In my previous video I shared with you the five ways that we acquire, low self-confidence, low self-esteem and where shyness comes from. And so nowhere in there was there a shy gene because that doesn’t exist and so I want to debunk this myth. So what I’m trying to tell you is that it’s not true. You were not born with a shy gene. You acquired shyness from your parents, your school, all of those different things that we talked about in the previous video, but it is not true. But what happens is that, when you tell yourself that you’re shy, you’re basically doing an affirmation. For most of you that don’t know what an affirmation is, it’s basically what you tell yourself over and over and over and over and then you actually begin to believe it. Now the thing about affirmations i

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com HOW TO DEVELOP CONFIDENT BODY LANGUAGE- 6 TIPS Hey guys, I want to talk to you about a very important topic and that is Body Language. 93% of communication is body language and only 7 percent is what you actually say. With that being understood one can see how understanding our body language can be so important. I want to share with you 6 body language tips that you can implement into your body language today! 1. Eye contact- Confident people have great eye contact. Eye contact is a major show of confidence. I’m sure you have met people that don’t have very good eye contact and you can sense that they are not confident. 2. Relaxed shoulder- Think of your arms as being spaghetti and they are heavy that a good way to make sure your shoulder are relaxed. 3. Walk slow- as a confident person we are not in a rush. We walk slow and with purpose. Alpha characteristic is a walk confident walk. 4. Lean back- keep you weight on one leg. This means that you are not afr

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com HOW TO DEVELOP CONFIDENT BODY LANGUAGE-9 THINGS TO AVOID Hey guys, I want to talk to you about a very important topic and that is Body Language. 93% of communication is body language and only 7 percent is what you actually say. With that being understood one can see how understanding our body language can be so important. I want to share with you 9 body language habits to avoid. 1. Crossing arms- when you are speaking to someone in public or anywhere for that matter be aware that you do not fold your arms. This implies that you are not approachable or are uncomfortable. Instead be open keep your arms at your side. 2. Fidgeting- fidgeting is a characteristic of a person that is not confortable in the situation. Fidgeting is described as body movement without purpose, this can be when you are talking to people trying not to move. Stand still and be aware of your arms and feet. 3. Looking down- looking down is a beta male characteristic. It is seen as a sign o

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE -STEP 1 Hey guys, I am excited to share with you the first step to building your self-confidence. The first steps consist of 3 main concepts that we must understand so that we can use to our advantage. The 3 main concepts are: understand that you are special, don’t let peoples opinion become your reality, and hangout with people that empower you. • Understand that you are special, if you are alive that means that you are specials. You are 1 out of 40 million-1.2 billion sperm cells; the fact that you are here is already a miracle. We are all born with a purpose mine is to share messages like this with people, your may be something different. • Don't let people’s opinions become your reality, we grow up being told to fit in and not be different and in the process we lose our self. Peoples opinions have been adapted by society and the media, and they feel like anything different than what their use to seeing means is not good enough

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com CONFIDENCE- YOUR LACK OF CONFIDENCE IS A STRENGTH I’m always talking about how to raise your self-confidence, and how important it is to your success. Today I came across a thought that I wanted to share with you. That is that your lack of confidence has many positives. Yes, I am going to share with you what the positives to a lack of confidence does for you and also I want to give a tip that you can use today to help you to be more confident in the eyes of others. First, I want to share with you the difference between confidence and being competent. Confidence is your belief in your self to be able to do a certain task, and competence is your knowledge or ability to do it. Once that is understood we can talk about how your lack of confidence is strength. I remember when I was in school in biology class ill never forget I was very confident in my test taking skills which made me not study enough, in the other hand a classmate of mines was not confident so she

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com HOW TO BE MORE CONFIDENT- FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS In this video I cover how following your dreams in a great way to boost your self-confidence. We often grow up doing what others tell us to do and following the leader therefore we lose our identity. I always hear when people say that they don’t know what their passion is, and the reason for that is because we lose ourselves with all the social conditioning while growing up. In your daily life there is something that you like to do , which is probably what you spend most of your leisure time doing. Maybe it’s a hobby, whatever it is, that is what your passion is. So now your job is to figure out how to get paid to do just exactly that. Many people go into professions that they think are good because of job security or maybe the pay is good, without ever thinking if they will like what they do. I have actually done this in my own life, and I can tell your first hand you will regret it. My life changed when I made a

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com CONFIDENCE IS A SKILL Hey Guys, Randy Arias here, and today I want to talk to you about confidence being a skill and let me explain what a skill is. A skill is something that you learn. It’s not something you’re born with. Some people have talent, natural talent. Some people have skill. A skill is something that you gain from practice and practice and practice for over a long time and it becomes something you’re good at. If you play baseball for example, and you couldn’t hit the ball the first time but you tried and you tried and you tried, day after day, week after week. You actually get to a point where you can hit the ball, and if you keep going and going and going. You’re going to be able to hit a homerun eventually right. Same thing, so a skill, something you can learn through practice. And so I want to tell you a little bit of my scenario of something that I’ve encountered in my life and that is that, I’ve had over twenty jobs in my life. I’ve been work

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com HOW TO MAKE CONFIDENT DECISIONS Today I want to share with you a trick that I do, to make confident decisions. All throughout my life, I’ve always had trouble making decisions, and that’s because I lacked the confidence that whatever decision I was going to make was the right one. In life, there are so many options. Like career paths, you could be an Engineer or you could be the President of The United States or you could be a Doctor. I mean, there are so many options out there. Same thing with jobs, what job do you choose? How do you know where to work? Do you work at the factory or do you work at McDonald’s or do you work at some business place? There are so many options in life. It is hard, it really is and trust me, I deal with it all the time, but I found a simple trick that has helped me to make the decisions confidently, knowing that this is going to be it no matter what. So I want to share that with you. It is basically your goals. Before you can mak

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com HOW TO BE MORE CONFIDENT, SETTING GOALS Hey guys, this is Randy Arias, and today I want to share with you how to set goals. Now the purpose why we’re making this goal video is because in order to become more confident in yourself and to make confident decisions and to be decisive and all these different qualities that a confident person has, you must have goals. You must know who you want to be and how you’re going to do it and what you want out of life. You just have to know. If you don’t know that, how can you possibly ever be confident in doing anything in life? Make sense? And so just so you guys know, my passion is self-development. My passion and what I spend my time doing is reading books on self-confidence and goal setting and how to become a better person. And so I’m going to be sharing with you what I have learnt in over hundreds of books on this topic. So this is very valuable knowledge that I’m about to give you. It is very simple, yet very powerfu

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com WHAT IS CONFIDENCE Hey guys, Today I want to talk to you about, what is confidence? I’ve actually had a lot of people email me asking me to make a video on what is confidence. So I want to share that with you exactly that. Confidence is your belief about being able to accomplish something. So you may think that you’re not good at Math, therefore; you’re not confident in your skill of Math. However, you may be confident in reading, so your belief that you’re a good reader makes you confident. So that’s basically the concept of it guys. So what is confidence? It’s your belief that you can accomplish a certain goal. Now you may not know how to do the thing that you are going to do, but you have the belief, you have confidence, even though you don’t know how to do it. So you don’t have to know and we are going to talk about this but you don’t have to know how to do something to have confidence in it. That’s called Competence. Competence is defined as knowing t

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com THE IMPORTANCE OF CONFIDENCE Hey guys, Randy Arias here, today I want to talk to you about the importance of self-confidence. You know guys a lot can be said about self-confidence, but in my opinion, some of the most important reasons to be a confident person, and to strive to be more confident is that it applies to every part of our lives. If you think about any successful person you could think of at this moment. Think about their confidence level. Most, if not all, successful people of America are very, very confident in what it is that they’re doing or whatever it is that they’re confident about. You will never meet a CEO of any Fortune 500 Company that lacked confidence. If you think about what they do on a daily basis, they deal with people, they do conferences, they talk… they do public speaking engagements. They are constantly being exposed to society and they have to perform, right. The only way one can be successful in that perspective is to be confi

TO LEARN MORE VISIT: http://www.randyarias.com CONFIDENCE- BREAKING OUT OF YOUR SHELL I want to share with you a topic that is going to help you to build your confidence. Alright, I’m going to give you the first tip, and that is, there is a first time for everything. There is a first time, when you’re going to start talking to people. You’re going to come out of your shell. You might say the first word and it may not come out the right way. You may feel awkward. You may feel unsure. You may feel that you said something stupid. You’re going to think it because that’s what it’s going to be and so what I want to share with you, is that the first time is going to be the hardest. But the good news is, the more that we do something, the better we become. So when you first start talking to people, when you start coming out of your shell, just remember that. Know that the first times are going to be hard. It’s not going to happen overnight. It’s not. If you’re coming from a place of, very, very shy, it’s going t